Dispelling the Myths of Relating

A Transformational Journey for Couples Seeking Deeper Connection and those in need of deep renewal.

*Now Accepting Applications for couples ready to take the life changing journey 

We invite six couples to embark on an intimate and deeply immersive experience, divided into two small-group cohorts. This exclusive 10 month journey is designed to help you and your partner break free from outdated relationship models and step into a new paradigm of love—one rooted in authenticity, conscious connection, and deep intimacy. it is a transformational process that weaves deep learning, immersive experiences, and integration to create lasting change.

Program Structure

  • 8 weeks of guided sessions (Zoom)

  • 3-day in-person retreat (medicine journey) in Ashland, OR

  • Individual integration sessions

  • 8 more weeks of guided sessions (Zoom)

  • Second 3-day in-person retreat (medicine journey) in Ashland, OR

  • Final integration sessions + Ritual in Relationship Training

To create a rhythm that supports your desired outcomes, we recommend committing to:
✔ 2 hours per week for live sessions
✔ An additional hour per week dedicated to quality time together

Group Meeting Times:
Times listed below are suggested. Finalized class times will be determined based on the needs of each group.

Choose Your Group

Group 1 (Thursdays – Time TBD by group)

📆 Phase 1:

  • 8 weeks of Zoom sessions: April 10 – May 29

  • Journey #1 in Ashland, OR: June 5 (6 PM) – June 8 (1 PM)

  • Individual Integration Sessions: June 9 – June 30 (Scheduled with Deborah)

  • Support Calls: July 17 & August 14 (Time TBD)

📆 Phase 2:

  • 8 weeks of Zoom sessions: September 9 – October 23

  • Journey #2 in Ashland, OR: November 6 (6 PM) – November 9 (1 PM)

  • Individual Integration Sessions: November 9 – November 30 (Scheduled with Deborah)

📆 Final Integration & Closing:

  • Mid-November to mid-January: Off (with ongoing support calls)

  • 3 final Zoom sessions: January 15 – January 29 (Ritual in Relationship Training)

Group 2 (Sundays – Time TBD by group)

📆 Phase 1:

  • 8 weeks of Zoom sessions: April 6 – May 25

  • Journey #1 in Ashland, OR: May 29 (5 PM) – June 1 (1 PM)

  • Individual Integration Sessions: June 9 – June 30 (Scheduled with Deborah)

  • Support Calls: July 13 & August 17 (Time TBD)

📆 Phase 2:

  • 8 weeks of Zoom sessions: September 7 – October 26

  • Journey #2 in Ashland, OR: October 23 (6 PM) – October 26 (1 PM)

  • Individual Integration Sessions: November 9 – November 30 (Scheduled with Deborah)

📆 Final Integration & Closing:

  • Mid-November to mid-January: Off (with ongoing support calls)

  • 3 final Zoom sessions: January 11 – January 25 (Ritual in Relationship Training)

What you will experience:

This immersive 10-month program is designed to support couples in reclaiming their love and fostering deep, lasting intimacy. The journey includes:

  • Weekly group sessions ( two 8-week cycles on day of choice)  to explore relationship dynamics, self-awareness, and conscious partnership.

  • Two in-person, 3-day medicine journeys designed to facilitate healing, release old relational wounds, and invite a profound reset in your bond.

  • Integration sessions with two seasoned facilitators to help you embody and sustain your breakthroughs.

Through guided discussions, embodied practices, partner exercises, and reflective writing prompts, you will break free from conditioned patterns and step into a relationship built on clarity, choice, and unwavering connection.

Why this Journey?

Love is evolving. As we shift away from old conditioning and societal expectations, we are being called to redefine how we relate, communicate, and sustain intimacy. Relationships are no longer about duty or habit; they are about conscious choice, ongoing renewal, and deep, soul-level connection.

For centuries, ritual was at the heart of receiving love and guidance. Love wasn’t an afterthought squeezed between busy schedules—it was tended to with care, presence, and intention. Today, we are being invited to return to that wisdom, shedding inherited patterns and stepping into a higher consciousness of love.

Whether you are blending families, navigating life without children, or simply longing to reignite the spark, this journey offers a space for realignment, renewal, and reawakening in your relationship.

The Journey Outline

Phase 1: The Couples’ Journey (First 8-Week Cycle)

  • Nurturing Our Instinct to Love

  • Unwinding Codependency

  • Living an Emotionally Abundant Life

  • Sacred Sovereignty

  • Showing Up for Intimacy

  • Receiving as a Path

  • Surrendering to a Higher Love

  • The Power of Presence

Medicine Journey #1: June 5th–8th or November 6th-9th

Phase 2: Deepening the Work (Second 8-Week Cycle)

  • Right Living: Creating a harmonious home and environment

  • Right Livelihood: Aligning your work with your heart

  • Right Speech: Truth-telling and speaking with love

  • Right Sexuality: Exploring conscious, passionate intimacy

  • Right Relationships: Deepening connection with yourself and others

  • Releasing the Past: Healing wounds from past relationships and family dynamics

  • Telling the Old Story for the Last Time: Breaking free from outdated relational narratives

Medicine Journey #2: May 29th-June 1st or October 23rd-26th

Investment in Your Relationship

Investment & Commitment

This is a 10-month immersive program with a total investment of $10,000.

💰 Payment Structure:

  • $2,000 deposit secures your spot.

  • $1,000 monthly payments from June – January.

  • Flexible payment plans available if needed—please reach out to discuss options.

Commitment & Agreement
This program requires full commitment to the entire journey, even if you do not complete all modules. Before enrolling, please discuss with your partner how you will be responsible for the full program investment as a shared agreement.

Next Steps

Secure your spot with a $2,000 non-refundable deposit

Note: . Due to the intimate nature of this program, space is limited to only three couples per cohort.

If you’re ready to embark on this transformative journey, apply now and take the next step toward a love you can truly count on.

Your Facilitators

Victoria Valentina, MA, PhD (2026), and Deborah Wilder bring decades of expertise in grief, trauma, and relational healing, seamlessly weaving ancient wisdom with modern psychology. More than skilled practitioners, they are devoted guides who deeply embody the principles they teach—not just in their work, but in their own relationships.

They understand that partnership is both a sacred path and a practice—one that requires unlearning old patterns, embracing vulnerability, and cultivating conscious connection. Every tool they share has been lived, tested, and proven in their own journeys and in the lives of the couples they support.

Their approach honors the raw, transformative power of love, helping couples release outdated dynamics and step into a new way of relating—one rooted in trust, intimacy, and deep mutual understanding.

"This is sacred work—a remembering of ways that are deeply human, profoundly healing, and universally needed."

This journey is more than a program—it is an initiation into a new paradigm of partnership, guided by facilitators who walk this path alongside you.

“Love is the true evolutionary force in the universe... the only thing we desire enough to grow beyond ourselves.”
—Chelan Harkin, The Prophetess